We scream from the rooftops that we want our independence. We need no one. We should be treated as individuals, and allow ourselves to live our lives.
Perfectly fair.
But unless you’re sewing your own clothes, building your own home, assembling your own car, generating your own electricity, and growing your own food, then you are obliged to acknowledge that you are reliant on others. Very few achieve – or even want, I’d argue – total independence.
We cannot selectively decide that we want individual treatment in certain situations that favor us, but then demand equitable treatment when the benefits are unfavorable.
We are a social species. Like it or not, we need each other. Embrace the help. Support your fellow humans.